Each year, beginning with the traditional Spring Break of schools and colleges, millions of people pack up and take off for a vacation. And, no matter where we all go—ocean, mountains, desert, historical site, Grandmas-- the intent remains the same. We are looking for a place where we can let go of the daily grind and get absorbed into a landscape different from the one we left behind. Even if we love our work, there is still a need to periodically create space between ourselves and what we do. Taking time away is a decision that comes from listening to a voice inside us that we usually regulate to the last seat in the van. The one we answer most of the time with 'not now', 'maybe later' or on occasion, 'you want to do what?"
Vacations have become an accepted way of giving time to ourselves. If they succeed in that end, we arrive home refreshed and renewed from the healing and nourishment received from relinquishing our demanding routines and opening up for an agenda based entirely on pleasure and interests. Cervantes has a great line that sums up exactly what happens if we do not. "Alas, all music jars when the soul's out of tune." Giving ourselves permission to wander and putter, not shave, take a nap, play chase with our kids, have the second cup of coffee while still in our pajamas, is nothing less than a tune up for our souls.
Times are tough now and money is short all around. The need for time in which to rest and regain our bearings is greater than ever. The benefits are the same whether spent in your own backyard or across the country. And just like the importance of a tune up for your car, when it is neglected, there will be consequences down the road. Something to consider if lately the music seems not the melody you want to hear…
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